Imagine there was a place you could go, where the elements of desire were guaranteed to be found: Welcome to "The Bubble" ... an antidote for desire trouble. ~~~ I want to try something just a little bit different with this posting. I am going to diverge from my typical approach and ask for … Continue reading THE BUBBLE IS HELP FOR DESIRE TROUBLE
Sex is like food? ... take a moment to consider my reasoning, and perhaps you can begin to change your diet into a gourmet's adventure.
... it's not so much that desire is evaporating as it is that many of the components of your desire have been fulfilled, are no longer deemed important or no longer apply. _____ Remember all of that amazing sex you used to have? When you couldn't wait to get naked with your future long-term partner, … Continue reading WHERE DID ALL OF THAT HOT SEX GO?
Having the sex life of your dreams is nothing short of a fantasy come true. And there are few truer ways to that end than to identify, then close, any gaps that may exist between the reality and fantasy of your current sex life. _____ Few would disagree that fantasy plays an important role in … Continue reading THE 2 OBSTACLES TO MAKING SEXUAL FANTASY A REALITY
Check with the experts, read the surveys and just about any "top 10" list and you're sure to find it: CONFIDENCE It's what every man knows women want, it's what they want, it is the quintessential masculine characteristic, guaranteed to result in success by any standard or measure, including the sex life of your dreams. … Continue reading A QUESTION OF CONFIDENCE
In my last posting, Average Man, Meet Average Sex, I offered my perspective on how, in the absence of strong lessons to the contrary, culture becomes role model and teacher in shaping the sexuality of Average Man, and that the outcome of this learning strategy is not very effective. All in an attempt to encourage … Continue reading AVERAGE MAN, MEET EXCEPTIONAL SEX
It seems to me that the main focus of the average guy's sexuality remains pretty much unchanged throughout his life. He wants sex, and by sex I mean vaginal intercourse. It's a worthy cause, and perfectly understandable - vaginal intercourse is the personification of human sexual contact, the perfect union of form and function. And … Continue reading AVERAGE MAN, MEET AVERAGE SEX